I have a sister who is not married yet. She's the only one in the family that is not. And so she thinks that it must be difficult to take from a carefree singleness to the ties of marriage. What she's not sure of is if being married means being dependent to another person or having your freedom snatched from you. Now that you have a partner in everything, she wonders if it is still acceptable for her to have secrets from her man. She also wonders if married life means she has to put up with things she doesn't want. Like watching football and basketball games instead of her favorite Sex and the City episode, have friends all over her living room who talk nothing but cars and Ferrari parts, poker nights and having to consider someone else’s feelings before deciding.
Well, I say, married life has ups and downs. Except when you have a gift of celibacy, you'll definitely end up getting married. Marriage is a hard work. It's not easy. But as a married woman, I have more ups than downs in my married Life.
So Jai, no worries. You'll never know married life until you get there. But hey, you're still young. Enjoy your singleness while you can. Okay?
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